Christopher ANTHONY Cave

PLEASE NOTE; THIS SITE IS FOR THE USE OF PEOPLE WHO ARE GENUINELY WANTING TO LEAVE MESSAGES FOR CHRIS, IT IS NOT TO BE USED FOR MALACE OF ANY KIND BY ANYONE...
THE PEOPLE CONCERNED WILL BE HEARING FROM MY SOLICITOR AND IF IT CONTINUES I WILL INVOLVE THE LAW.

THANKYOU SO MUCH. THERESA
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A MESSAGE TO THE KIDS FROM TOM CAVE AGE 9 IN MEMORY OF MY BROTHER.........
'I was three when they stabbed him,,,Mam told me he was on a train in the sky...the kids told me there was lots of blood everywere...
My mam tells me to share my thoughts and i do.
Now i am nine and i understand exactly what happend to my brother and i can deal with it because i shared my thoughts and questions with my mam.
I find it better to cope with now as even though i loved him i can hardly remember him so its easy for me to cope with.
I will never have another brother because they stole my future when they murdered my brother.
Dont be like me, sad, loanly, confussed and angry because you would not like it at all, I am lucky as i have a mammy who loves me so much and i feel safe with her forever ,Mam keeps my brother alive in my head and i will carry on his name in mine, my heart is his he is my hero so i ask you all PLEASE DO NOT KILL, LIVE A GOOD LIFE, LET YOUR MAM SMILE ALWAYS NOT CRY LIKE MINE DOES I HUG HER AND SAY ITS ALL OK I LOVE MY MAM AND YOUR MAM LOVES YOU ALL TOO. By Tom Cave aged 9.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY DARLING BOY XX 24 TODAY 16/12/1985
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TWENTY FOUR HOURS AGO THEY SAID I WOULD GIVE BIRTH TO YOU TODAY.. TWENTY FOUR MINIUTES AGO YOU WERE BORN SO PERFECT AND SO BEAUTIFUL..I NEVER DREAMED THAT ON YOUR TWENTY FOURTH BIRTHDAY I WOULD BE TAKING FLOWERS TO YOUR GRAVE...AND IN TWENTY FOUR HOURS TIME I WILL BE FEELING THE PAIN I FELT YESTERDAY AND THE DAY BEFORE THAT AND SO ON AND SO ON...SON YOU WILL NEVER DIE IN OUR HEARTS IN OUR MINDS AND IN OUR LIVES, WE MISS YOU MORE THAN WORDS CAN EVER SAY AS YOU ALLREADY KNOW...THE ROAD GOES ON FOREVER WE ARE WALKING THE PASSAGE OF HELL WAITING TO SEE THAT WONDERFUL LIGHT AT THE END OF THE ROAD BUT WE HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO BE PATIENT AND WAIT IF WE ARE TO SEE YOU AGAIN AND MY DARLING THAT IS ALL WE LIVE FOR...ALL I CAN DO IS CONTINUE TO DO MY WORK FOR YOU THROUGH YOU AND WITH YOUR EVERLASTING LOVE TO GUIDE ME. JUSTICE HAS BECOME A VERY LONG AND TANGLED UP WORD SON AND NO MATTER HOW WE TRY TO UNTANGLE IT AND HAVE SOME SENSE MADE FROM IT WE JUST GET MORE AND MORE TANGLED UP. I BELIEVE IN YOU AND ALL YOUR SO MANY FRIENDS UP THERE WITH YOU TAKEN BEFORE THEIR TIME AND WITHOUT THOUGHT FOR OTHERS, I KNOW TOGETHER YOU WILL ALL WORK YOUR MAGIC FOR ALL US MUMS DOWN HERE WORKING SO HARD TO MAKE SOME GOOD COME FROM SO MANY TERRIBLE BAD AND THOUGHTLESS ACTIONS. WORK WITH US SON AND BRING THE ANGELS TO THEIR MOTHERS SIDES WHEN THEY ARE FEELING SO MUCH PAIN, I KNOW THAT YOU ARE BY OUR SIDE GUIDING ME THROUGH AND PROTECTING TOM AND I KNOW YOU KISS MY CHEEK AND YOU WIPE AWAY MY SADNESS GIVING ME STREANGTH TO GO ON. I AM THE PROUDEST MOTHER EVER AND I LOVE YOU SO SO MUCH ALWAYS AND FOREVER MY DARLING SWEET ANGEL YOUR BROKEN HEARTED MAM AND LITTLE BROTHER TOM XXXXXXXXXXXXX

A BIG THANK YOU TO ALL MY FRIENDS ON G.T.S. FOR KEEPING CHRIS SO WELL LOVED. ALLTHOUGH I RARLY AM HERE DOESNT MEAN I DO NOT THINK OF YOU ALL OFTEN. I SEND YOU ALL SO MUCH LOVE AND THANKS AND WISH YOU ALL A VERY HAPPY AND PEACFUL CHRISTMAS AND AN EVEN HAPPIER NEW YEAR. ALLTHOUGH OUR KIDS ARE NOT HERE THEY WILL WANT YOU ALL TO ENJOY THIS HAPPY TIME MASSIVE HUGS AND SMILES FROM THERESA XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX



CHRISTOPHER ANTHONY CAVE DIED ON THE FITH OF JUNE 2003 AT
1AM.HE WAS SEVENTEEN YEARS OLD AND WAS A SALES ACCOUNTANT FOR SKY T.V. CHRISTOPHER LIVED IN REDCAR AND HAD A LITTLE BROTHER CALLED THOMAS,HE WAS THREE YEARS OLD WHEN HIS BIG BROTHER WAS STABBED TO DEATH.......
CHRISTOPHER WAS AN EXTREAMLY HANDSOME YOUNG MAN WITH A HEART OF GOLD AND A PERSONALITY LIKE YOUVE NEVER SEEN. HE WAS LOVED AND RESPECTED BY ALL WHO KNEW HIM AND GAVE AS MUCH BACK.
HE WAS EVERYTHING TO ME AND HE ADORED HIS ONLY BROTHER TOM.I CANNOT TELL YOU THE BATTLE I FACE EVERY DAY COMING TO TERMS WIYH MY LOSS.IF I HADNT HAD BEEN BLESSED WITH MY LITTLE BOY TO LOOK AFTER THEN WITHOUT DOUBT I WOULD HAVE BEEN LAID TO REST WITH MY WONDERFUL SON CHRIS, SO EACH DAY I THANK GOD FOR GIVING ME THOMAS, HE IS MY LIFE AND EVERY BREATH I BREATH, I BREATH FOR HIM.WE HELP EACHOTHER THROUGH DAY BY DAY. WE CRY TOGETHER. WE LAUGH TOGETHER AND WE GROW STRONGER BY THE MINIUTE.CHRISTOPHER OOZED CHARISMA HE HAD GIRLS QUEWING UP AND MADE SURE HE LEFT NONE OF THEM OUT !!!!EVEN THE OLD AGED PENSIONERS COULDNT HELP BUT LOVE HIM AS HE SERVED THEM UP XMAS TEA EACH YEAR.HE WAS A PACIFIST HATED VIOLENCE INANY SHAPE OR FORM BUT STOOD UP FOR ANYONE HE FOUND TO BE GETTING BULLIED FOR WHATEVER REASON.HE WAS SO BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT. HE NEVER PUT HIMSELF FIRST OR DEMANDED ANYTHING IN HIS SHORT LIVED LIFE.HE DIDN'T DESERVE TO DIE THE WAY HE DID...FOR STANDING BY HIS BELIEFS..........
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'IN MEMORY OF MY WONDERFUL SON CHRISTOPHER ANTHONY
CAVE' 16/12/1985 TO 5/06/2003

' TAKEN WITHOUT CONSENT'

SIX YEARS ITS JUST LIKE YESTERDAY,
THATS HOW IT IS AND HOW IT WILL STAY...
YOUR NAME LIVES ON IN YOUR LEGACY,
A FOUNDATION FOR ALL TO BUILD ON
AND OUR PROMISE TO YOU IS THAT WE WILL STRIVE
TO BUILD THE FOUNDATION SO STRONG,
I KNOW YOUR BESIDES ME WHEN THINGS DO GO WRONG
OUR BOND IS ONE NO ONE CAN BREAK,
AND THAT IS THE ONE THING I CAN PROMISE YOU SON
THAT NO ONE WILL EVER TRY TAKE.

YOU LIVE INSIDE OF MY HEART AND DEEP DOWN IN
SOUL YOUR WORK I CONTINUE TO DO.
PRAYING FOR THE DAY WHEN WE ALL MEET AGAIN
AND I CAN TELL YOU HOW MUCH IVE MISSED YOU.

SO I BEGIN ANOTHER LONG CHAPTER SON,
AND BEGIN THE NEW FIGHT ALL OVER AGAIN,
GOD WILL EVENTUALLY DO SOMTHING SO THAT ALL
OF THE WAITING WONT BE IN VEIN.
AND HERE I WILL WAIT 'TILL' IT HAPPENS
WHEN ALL OF THE TRUTHS WILL COME OUT..
GOD WILL MAKE SURE THAT YOU HAVE YOUR DAY
THIS IS A FACT SON WITHOUT ANY DOUBT.

"ANOTHER YEAR JUST LIKE THE LAST SIX YEARS SON
LOVING YOU AND DREAMING OF HOW YOU WOULD LOOK
NOW, HOW YOU WOULD HAVE GROWN INTO A MORE
HANDSOME YOUNG MAN AND HOW HAPPY WE WOULD HAVE
ALL BEEN.NOW YOU ARE SAFE WERE NOBODY CAN HURT
YOU EVER AGAIN MY BRAVE DARLING BOY"

YOUR DEVOTED AND BROKEN HEARTED MAM, LITTLE BROTER
TOM AND YOUR BROKEN HEARTED NANA WHO NOW LIVES
ONLY TO DIE AND TO BE WITH HER DARLING BOY
AGAIN.KEEP WORKING YOUR MAGIC MY PRECIOUS
LITTLE 'CUTCHIE FACE' EVERY TEAR I SHED IS A
CUDDLE FOR YOU!
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PLEASE HELP US BRING THE CHRIS CAVE FOUNDATION TO
TO BECOME THE HAVEN FOR FAMILIES EVERYWERE WHO
HAVE SUFFERED THE LOSS OF A LOVED ONE TO MURDER.
HELP US TO GET THE RETREAT WE ARE DREAMING OF.
HELP US TO BE ABLE TO SHOW THE MOTHERS SUFFERING
THE PAINS FROM HELL THAT THERE IS HOPE FOR THEM
AND A LIGHT AT THE END OF THEIR VERY DARK TUNNEL.

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'Speaking as a mother of a murdered child i know only too well the pain and suffering that is left behind after loosing your child to the act of Homicide.
Many people ask me 'how does it feel?' i tell them that it is impossible to explain unless it happens to you. However the one thing i do say is this..Imagine dropping a pebble down into a well, for ages theres nothing until eventually you hear that 'splash' as the pebble is caught by the water below, this is how it feels inside of you only there is no sound, no splash just an endless 'nothing' no water to catch the pebble because everything has been 'ripped' out from inside of you and you are left feeling a great big 'nothing' and that stays with you forever. Since i began Mothers against violence, i have met so many 'mothers in pain', i have helped so many re-gain the will to live and this is what its all about, you see you sink or you swim and for those who rightly feel themselves sinking then we are here to keep them aflot, we are here to show them comfort support ad help them in the aftermath of the murder. We strive to give as much understanding hope and the re-building of their selfeateam as we can possibly do and eventually we try so hard to show them that even though it never gets better, it never leaves you that time is not the great healer that people say it is that there is a 'light at the end of the very long tunnel. We show through 'us' that 'they' too will eventully become the 'expert' in the act of 'painting on a smile', that eventually 'they 'will' eventually be able to become able to 'accomodate' the pain and be able to 'controle' the agony and stress that eats away at us all. To be able to sit and hold the hand of a 'mother in pain' from the begining of their tragic ordeal, to feel her pain as it was once your pain but to be able to 'let go of that hand' how ever long it takes following and to be able to say ' now you can cope' without me.. is the most precious reward that anyone could ever wish to gain. This is only 'one' of the many tasks we take on ourselves and 'why do we do this' you ask? ...because 'we' ARE the experts in this profession, the only profession were you need only the one qualifercation to be able to do it and that is the qualifercation of 'Life Experiance', The will to survive and to help others survive too'. God Bless all mothers in pain. If you are suffering a loss and you can relate to the things i have said and need to be told what you are feeling is not the signs of you 'going insane', not the start of a massive 'breakdown' but the signs of Grief that come in so mny stages at different times and never in the same order for any one person, then PLEASE CONTACT ME OR LEAVE ME A MESAGE. This is my hand being held out for you' xxxx





'PERPUL CHRISSY'

'PERPUL' YOU'D PRONOUNCE IT,
YOU'D SHOUT IT OUT LOUD,
PERPUL CHRISSY ON A BIG PERPUL CLOUD!
PERPUL FLOWERS HAVE THE BEST PERPUL SMELL,
PERPUL WATER FROM A PERPUL WELL...

PERPUL PEOPLE RIDE BRIGHT PERPUL BIKES,
PERPUL KIDDIES FLY BIG PERPUL KITES...
PERPUL PETER, PERPUL PAUL,
PERPUL HUMPTY ON A PERPUL WALL...
EVERYTHINGS PERPUL AND IT FEELS SO GOOD,
PERPUL FINGERS PLAYING HAPPILY IN THICK PERPUL
MUD...
AS I WIPE AWAY TEARS ON A HANKIE OF ROUGH PERPUL
WOOD.

'DO YOU BELIEVE IN ANGELS?'
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DO YOU EVER SIT ALONE IN A ROOM?
DO YOU APPRECIATE AN OPEN BLOOM?...............
DO YOU SMELL ITS SWEET PERFUME?

DO YOU FEEL THE NEED TO TALK OUT LOUD, BUT NO-ONES
THERE TO HEAR,
DO YOU HEAR A VOICE CALL OUT YOUR NAME SO CLOSE UPTO
YOUR EAR?
HAVE YOU EVER FELT A SUDDEN CHILL PASS BY,
AND THE HAIR ON YOUR NECK STANDS UP???
HAVE YOU GONE TO POUR A CUP OF TEA BUT SOMEONES
MOVED YOUR CUP !!

DO YOU BELIEVE IN ANGELS, DO THEY MAKE YOU SMILE
HAVE YOU FELT ONE ON EACH SHOULDER,
AS YOU WALK THAT WEIRY MILE?
DO YOU KNOW THAT ALL THESE THINGS ARE MESSAGES TO
YOU...
DO YOU BELIEVE THAT THEY EXIST ?
WELL I'LL TELL YOU .. YES THEY DO !



'MY DREAM'
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'LAST NIGHT I HAD THE STANGEST DREAM,
YOU WERE STOOD LAUGHING OUT LOUD AND AROUND YOU
WAS A BLINDING BEAM.
IT WAS BUILT UP OF SUCH COLOURS AND ALL WERE
AGLEAM, MIXING TOGETHER LIKE THE COLOURS DO WHEN
YOU LIGHT A CATHRINE WHEEL.
COLOURS I JUST CAN'T EXPLAIN, THE BRIGHTEST
'GOLDEN-BLUE' 'TURQUOISE-RED' AND 'AMBER-GREEN'
WITH SILVER RUNNING THROUGH.

SHOOTING STARS WERE FLYING FROM THE RAYS YOU DID
ADORN, THE ATHMOSPHERE ELECTRIC AND OH SO VERY
WARM,
YOU HELD YOUR HAND OUT TO ME,
YOUR GRIP SO FIRM SO STRONG,
YOU WALKED WITH ME TOWARDS THE LIGHT,,
THEN I AWOKE AND YOU WERE GONE.

DEAR GOD..........
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DEAR HEAVENLY FATHER, SWEET ANGELS SPIRITS TRUE,
I THINK I NEED SOME GUIDENCE SO I GIVE MY THOUGHTS
TO YOU.
AS YOU ALL KNOW I AM GRIEVING, A PROCESS I AM TOLD,
THAT EVERY MOTHER GOES THROUGH WHEN YOU CALL HER
CHILD BACK TO YOUR FOLD.
I KNOW THAT HE IS SAFE NOW, AND HAPPY WITH YOU ALL,
BUT WHY ALLOW HIM SO MUCH PAIN BEFORE YOU MADE HIM
FALL? WHY DID YOU SHOW HIM FEAR IN SUCH AN
UNSPEAKABLE AMMOUNT,
WHY DIDN'T YOU ALLOW MY EARS TO HEAR HIM SCREAM AND
HEAR HIM SHOUT.
WHY COULDN'T HE WHO DONE NO HARM TO ANY LIVING
THING, SLIP AWAY INSIDE HIS SLEEP TILL HIS LIFE
WITH YOU BEGAN AGAIN. WHY IS IT THAT THE DEVIL
CAME TO SCARE MY LITTLE CHILD.
WHO WAS WITHOUT EVIL THOUGHT IN BODY NOR IN MIND?
WHO WAS MADE TO SCREAM, RUN FOR HIS LIFE AS PEOPLE
JUST STOOD BY.WHO JUST LAY THERE IN FRONT OF ME
WITHOUT THAT SPARKLE IN HIS EYES.
WHY PUT MY CHILD THROUGH SO MUCH PAIN........
WHAT WAS THERE TO GAIN?????????????????????????

'EVERYTHINGS FOR A REASON' I HEAR YOU SAY INSIDE MY
HEAD,'HIS SOUL IS FREE AND HAPPY NOW, JUST HIS
'OVERCOAT' LAY DEAD..
'HE ISN'T HURTING ANYMORE, NOT FEELING NO MORE
NOT FEELING NO MORE PAIN.HIS LIFE ON EARTH
TO THE FULL, HE DIDN'T DIE IN VEIN,YOU SEE EACH
PERSON HAS A TASK AND WHEN THEIR TASK IS DONE,
THEN ITS TIME OUR FATHER SAYS TO CALL THAT SOUL
BACK HOME.
AND IT SEEMS SO HARSH AND SO UNFAIR TO THOSE HE
LEAVES BEHIND BUT THATS THE SAME OLD SAYING 'CRUEL
TO BE KIND'
NOW MAYBYE THIS WILL EASE YOUR PAIN, A SECRET I
WILL TELL,
WHEN A MOTHERS TEARS FALL, THEY FALL INTO GODS WELL.
THIS IS WHY HE ONLY TAKES THE BEST THE VERY BEST AND
OH SO PURE.BECAUSE THOSE TEARS ARE SO PRECIOUS AND
THAT MY DEARS FOR SURE.
EACH MORNING GOD TAKES A BUCKET FULL OF MOTHERS
TEARS AND WATERS LITTLE SEEDS,THEN PLANTS THEM DEEP
IN WARMEST SOILS AND TENDS TO ALL THEIR NEEDS
WERE THE SEEDS TURN INTO SEEDLINGS WITH TINY HEARTS
THAT SWELL,AND BEFORE YOU KNOW IT TINY LIVES BEGIN
AGAIN.!
'TO MOTHERS IN PAIN' BY THERESA CAVE
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